One of the most interesting
sections in Chapter 8 is the one on Developmentally Appropriate
Counseling. I found this section so
interesting because we are going to have the difficult task of adjusting our
styles and the way that we counsel based on the types of students that we are
working with. In my opinion, that is a
skill that cannot be taught. When I was
in high school, it literally seemed like the guidance counselor treated every
student the exact same way. He didn’t
even take 30 seconds to get to know me.
He simply looked at my grades, passed judgment on me, and told me what I
needed to do with my life. When thinking
about how different each child is, that makes me so angry…but, I digress. The level of flexibility and knowledge that
we must have with our students is enormous.
It makes me nervous to think about the level of responsibility that is
going to be put on me as a counselor. I
constantly question whether I will be ready to step into that role. What keeps me confident is the training that
I am receiving here at Millersville, and believing in the fact that I was built
for this role.
I also
really enjoyed reading about the section on Multiculturally Appropriate
Counseling. The reason why I enjoyed
this section so much is because I am convinced that I am going to work in an
inner city school some day. If that
happens to be the case, I will be working with students with much different
backgrounds than me. I want to be known
as a culturally skilled counselor, mainly because I want to be able to work
with all types of students. I believe
that having that experience and knowledge will make me a much better counselor. The book states that culturally skilled
counselors “are not always tied down to only one method or approach to helping,
but recognize that helping styles and approaches may be culture bound”(Dollarhide
& Saginak, 2012). I want to be able
to develop that type of flexibility as a counselor.
Dollarhide, C. T., &
Saginak, K. A. (2012). Comprehensive
School Counseling Programs.
(2nd ed.). New
York : Pearson, Inc.
Matt- I'm so glad you touched on developmental counseling. When I was initially writing my blog I wanted to focus on the sections of Suicide Prevention and Developmentally Appropriate Counseling. However, after writing my blog I was emotionally drained. I think that the concept of being appropriate and again to quote Nakia "wide but not deep" is something more inherent than something that is able to be taught. Nice blog!
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